Primal Eros
The Path of Erotic Embodiment
A 6-WEEK JOURNEY TO AWAKEN SENSUAL EXPRESSION AND PLEASURE
The Next Cohort Begins January 2025
A Live Online Jounrey
The Experience
Deconstruct limiting stories and cultural norms to claim your sensuality and erotic expression on your own terms.
Come home to Nature as a support system, a mirror, and our greatest teacher.
Gently and effectively work with the protective parts that block bliss, pleasure, and your primal connection to the erotic to unlock our full sensual and sexual expression.
Return home to your sensuality, your body, and to the pleasure of being alive.
Claim and clarify your desires and longings, nurturing your relationship with desire itself as a pathway to your authenticity and erotic expression.
Connect with your turn-on & your erotic life force energy, and learn how to move it, expand it, love it, and allow it to enrich your life.
The Outcome
Find liberation from religious dogma, limiting stories, and cultural conditioning surrounding your sensuality and erotic nature.
Cultivate a greater sense of belonging in your body and to the Earth.
Develop tools you can use for the rest of your life to work through blocks, and reconnect with your wildness and eroticism.
Be deeply connected with pleasure as a birthright, as medicine, and as a pathway to your authenticity.
Move through life with an increased capacity to receive pleasure and love.
Embody radical self-acceptance and embrace your desires. Be in a playful relationship with your desires and longings, seeing them ever-evolving elements of a road map leading you toward self-actualization.
Know how to access your internal pleasure pathways for bigger, better, and more frequent orgasms.
What’s included
Online Content
4+ hours worth of weekly content made available between each live session.
Guided meditations, movement & embodiment practices, self-pleasure exercises, written and recorded lessons, nature-based invitations and activities, Eros Tracker mandala, journaling exercises, and daily practices.
Lifetime access to online course material & recorded live sessions.
Live Sessions
6 total live sessions (2 hours each) with your guide and cohort for support, processing and integration.
Opportunities for Heart Council, group processing, Q&A, and invitations that are tailored to the unique needs of the cohort.
This is for You.
You, who longs to liberate yourself from a suppressive upbringing that made you feel small or afraid to explore your sexuality fully.
You, who knows that there is more to your erotic life than what you are currently experiencing.
You, who is allured by Tantra, sacred sexuality, and the erotic. You, who knows that sexuality is tied to so much more than just sex.
You, who longs for a grand romance with your own life.
You, who knows that there is so much love and pleasure in the world, but you struggle to grasp it or hold it. You, who yearns for more of it.
You, who finds yourself time and again unable to connect with what you truly want & desire. You, who seeks clarity.
You, who feels numb, unable to access your deeply sensual side that you know is there. You, who yearns to access your full orgasmic potential.
You, who has lost touch with a once wildly erotic and free version of yourself, and is ready to welcome her back home.
What is the path of Erotic Embodiment? It is the path that follows Eros, pleasure and desire toward our orgasmic liberation and our greatest authenticity. It is a path to soul, spirit, connection, and wonder through our sexuality and relationality.
It is a path of romance—where life itself as a love story with which we are in constant courtship. It is a path that embraces the physical body and all of the incredible experiences it offers to us.
The Modalities
Guided movement and embodiment invitations rooted in tantric, yogic, and feminine embodiment practices.
Self-pleasure invitations that explore the landscape of pleasure, desire and orgasmic liberation.
Deep imagination journeys that allow us to meet and work with the primal erotic parts of the Self, as well as our blockages that are preventing us from increasing our pleasure capacity.
Journaling exercises that go beyond prompt questions to expose the subconscious, alchemize emotions, clarify desires & longings, and more.
Recorded and written lessons to provide the holistic sex education that we never got in school.
Grounding meditations and nature-based activities that provide the foundation and support needed to engage in deep self discovery and transformation.
Invitations to wander in nature with specific intentions, questions and exercises, providing healing, insight, wisdom from the land, and connection to your own wildness.
Tracking exercises with a beautiful mandala Eros Tracker to reflect on your unique relationship with the erotic.
Ceremony and ritual to facilitate deep transformation and integration.
Heart Council and Group Processing during live sessions that offer support, connection, and individualized care for your unique journey.
What’s Inside
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We begin by building our foundation. Connect with the pleasure that is already present in your life, your body, and the earth.
This first stage of the journey is to remember that we are an extension of earth; that we belong. It is to remember that we are inherently worthy of pleasure, orgasm, connection, and love.
It is to awaken to the possibility that Earth also longs for our being. It is to come home to Earth as the greatest teacher of the Erotic, and our greatest resource for support.
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We cannot liberate our orgasmic and sensual potential without first addressing the systems and players that have caged it.
In phase 2, we deconstruct the internalized belief systems that lead to sexual shame & shadow. We alchemize anger, sorrow and grief. We reframe, redefine and reclaim sexuality and the erotic on our own terms, free of hetero-patriarchal constrictions.
We work with the protective parts of our psyches that keep us small, because we are ready to say yes to a bigger version of ourselves and our sexuality.
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This week, we practice accessing the many forms of pleasure: sexual, physical or sensual, emotional, and spiritual.
Here, we increase our capacity to receive pleasure. What that means is that so many of us cannot actually tolerate the full capacity of our pleasure; we shut down after a certain period of time, or after a certain threshold of pleasure is reached. It is time to expand what we thought was possible.
This is where the homework gets really...well... pleasurable. We will engage in self-pleasure practices, movement practices and more to use throughout the rest of the course!
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Sensuality is our ability to be in active relationship with the senses. on one level, our sensuality is our capacity to really receive the world through our sensory pathways.
However, on a deeper level, our sensuality is to be in a reciprocal relationship with our sensory experience. It is to not only receive sensation, but to respond to it. It is our capacity to hold sensation, and then to express through sound, movement, action, etc as a response.
Sensuality goes beyond receiving information, and asks us to be in an embodied conversation with the world that we are in contact with.
This is how it becomes truly erotic: we say yes to the sensations we want, and respond to it. In doing so, we honor our relationship with life because when we are in our sensuality, we are no longer passive, but active players in our own story.
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This week is not about being desirable; it is about strengthening your relationship with your desires and longings. Everything changes when the energy shifts from trying to be desired to identifying your desire.
This isn't about getting everything you want, either. Nor is it about endlessly chasing your desires, only to find yourself on a hamster wheel of never being satisfied.
It is about seeing desire as a roadmap to the biggest version of ourselves.
It is about our relationship with desire itself, allowing the inquiry to guide us beyond surface-level wants and into the river of our deepest longings in this life.
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In our final week together, we bring it all together in an integrative exploration of primal eros.
Here, we learn how to stay connected with our authenticity and eroticism moving forward. Here, we experience the liberation of our sexuality, our eroticism, and our dance with life.
✺ Frequently asked questions ✺
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I do not believe that "online course" does Primal Eros justice, because above all else, it is an experiential journey.
There are lessons incorporated into the program that provide definitions, context to what we are doing, and why we are doing it. "Online course," however, implies a cerebral approach, or a traditional learning environment.
I use the term "online journey" to describe this program because I am not interested in talking at you about dogma or teaching in a "traditional" classroom way.
The realm of Eros is one that is nuanced, mysterious, taboo, poetic, sensual, and subtle. It is also an embodied, lived, and felt topic. I would be a fool to try to chop up such an animate force, as that would essentially take the erotic out of eros altogether.
This is an embodied, spiraling journey that goes beyond linear thinking, an exploration, and a direct dialogue with nature.
I promise, you will learn a lot, but not in the way you may expect from your average online course.
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Primal Eros is different from other programs because we take an earth-based and eco-psychological approach to sexuality. Eros comes directly from Nature. Our greatest teacher on the erotic is the wild Earth. This program stands out in that each step of the way, there are specific invitations that ask you to be in direct relationship with the wild, learn from nature, and explore this powerful energy by engaging with the source of it. Nature is not just a tool, but the foundation on which the program is built.
Finally, Primal Eros is an experiential journey, meaning that while there are lessons, techniques and practices shared, the teachings come from your body and your lived experience. Rather than telling you what you should and shouldn't do or be, our approach is to be curious, invite you into deeper and deeper relationship with your experience of the Erotic, and to ask the right questions. Here, we facilitate self-trust by empowering you to listen closely to your inner wisdom.
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My journey with sexual and feminine reclamation began upon my first sexual awakening, where after thinking that my vulva was broken for many years, I intuitively discovered how to awaken and move sexual energy in my body. this opened up a cascade of sexuality and tantra studies that occupied much of my 20s. In this time, I also spent ample time alone in the wild, seeking wisdom from the land on this topic. For this reason, Primal Eros is largely based on my lived experience, and intuitive discoveries that blossomed from my own body.
Beyond this essential foundation of lived experience, the practices and methods used in Primal Eros are derived from my extensive experience with ecopsychology, nature reconnection, yoga and embodiment, feminine form, sacred sexuality/tantra, and erotic practices through The Work that Reconnects (Joanna Macy), The Animas Valley Institute (Bill Ploktin), The Kula Collective, Dancing Serpent Mystery School (Kate Joyner), Shakti Scool (Katie Silcox), The Academy (Kasia Urbaniak), and the Institute for Authentic Tantra Education (Devi Ward Erickson).
These teachers have made up the landscape of my lineage, and continue to shape and impact how I show up in the world, and what I offer here.
A 6-week online journey to awaken sensual expression, pleasure, and belonging to the body and the earth.
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Absolutely!! At Wild Wayfarer, we not only accept but embrace the perspectives of gender queer folks of all sexual orientations. We believe that you belong, and that your perspective enriches our cultural understanding of the Erotic.
Gender identity is also an important topic to unpack in regard to this program, because the topic of our sexuality inherently requires us to acknowledge the ways in which gender and sex impacts it. For folks who do not fit into the binary of hetero-patriarchy, I want to offer some clarity on our approach so that you can feel confident about joining this program.
Primal Eros is designed to embrace and integrate the Feminine (or yin) aspect of the self in our approach, seeing the deep need for cultural and individual reclamation of this energy (regardless of gender or sex). It is also important to note that healing our relationship with the erotic requires us to look at how we have been culturally conditioned. This program centers around the experience of women and the unique ways in which they have been socialized, harmed and sexually repressed due to patriarchal constructs. That said, while there are thematic consistencies we address that many women face as a result of their socialization, it would be foolish to assume that only female-bodied women experience them. We acknowledge that the human experience is not black and white, which is why we take an experiential approach that welcomes the varied terrain of one's experiences with sexual repression.
I believe that this program can absolutely benefit trans women and non-binary folks who feel called to explore the Erotic from this perspective. I also hope that through open and welcomed conversations about the nuanced landscape of gender and queerness, this program can continue to become enriched by diverse perspectives.
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Both! Every single invitation in this program is designed to be sone solo. Primal Eros deeply explores your personal relationship with your sexuality. You do not need a partner or lover to complete this program.
However, the benefits and outcomes of this program are guaranteed to have a ripple effect on your romantic and sexual relationships. What you embody and learn here will absolutely translate to how you approach partnered sex and romance.
We welcome you, regardless of what type or style of relationship you are rocking—whether that is with yourself, your spouse, or in a polycule of lovers.
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Absolutely! When you enroll, you will be given an option to pay the full price or in three monthly payments interest-free.
We do not have a formal scholarship program at this time. However, we value making this sort of programming accessible. If you are in financial need and would like to discuss more accessible payment options, please reach out to jacqueline@wildwayfarer.com. Let's get you enrolled!
Priority for alternative financing will be given to BIPOC, trans, and genderqueer folks.